I have always loved father of the bride I and II, it is a movie that picks on family relations of marriage and having children, the main character is a father very much attached to his lovely daughter and in love with his wife. The movie comes in to tingle those feelings of warmness, a need to find a partner, and breast feed a child.
But like most American family movies, one grows up and discovers that though so deeply innocent on the surface, telling us about ‘proper’ family structures, they are selling a lot of concepts that are catastrophic in real life especially when imposed on a global level. Concepts that rest at the hard core of global captilsim.
Firstly, the movie is about a white American Christian upper middle class family, with two children, reinforcing in the minds of the global audience that this is the image of happiness, one has to live in such a grand house in such a nieghbourhoods. So basically it’s selling this family, a family that can be on the cover of a magazine. Meanwhile any such formation in real life is practically senseless.
Secondly, outbursts consemurism, grand weddings and lavishing baby rooms that are supposed to bring happiness to the characters of the film, and to the audience.
Thirdly, irrealistic measurement of life’s tragedies, where the biggest problem is two women giving birth at the same time.
Fourth, kindly feel despressed and increase your narcissism, so that you may feel better for not being a part of this merry utopian lifestyle.
Fifth, lets co-produce father issues for your therapist to hear about.
Generally all I am saying is that one has an overdose of jolly family American movies and their imperialist messages. Same plots, logics, endings, hardly offering anything but numb tiny jolts of tingling, and a wish to look like the screen. And the problem is, personally I have gotten accustomed to this media that my mind likes the taste of these drugs, while still objecting to many of the images produced infront of it.
I was just looking at some Soviet Union movie posters, while American movies have engraved in my mind the idea that soviet propaganda is very clear and largely intolerable, it seems like Soviet cinema offered something quite different from the American plot we are so familiar now, atlas tu according to the posters, I am not arguing for the sack of Soviet cinema but rather wondering what other very different modes of Cinema we might have had if history took a slightly different turn during the last century. I might have wondered then how father of the bride would be!